This year’s winter popularity death?

Do not know why, just entered the winter of 2009, my close friend had three relatives passed away, but after another, in a short span of three days the dead.
According to Chinese folklore, I would like to express our condolences to the family of the deceased – with spending money.
The more the relationship between good friends, the more to earn more money to them, you come up with more money, the more that you attach importance to the deceased or next of kin, the more will get the respect of others – in particular, have received the money of the deceased family.
Having said that, I took out in the end how much? – Is amazing, and I took out half of the salary sent out.